jhameia:

bakethatlinguist:

politicalsexmaskitten:

hooraychelle:

yellowxperil:

srsly tho this is absolutely a thing that dudes do all the fucking time

like where if he knows a grl doesn’t necessarily want to give him a hug, he will trap her in this position in front of witnesses where she has 2 options- both of which are undesirable for her, while simultaneously desirable for him

if she doesn’t want to hug him, whatever she does, it will suck for her.

she can 1. say nah and be the fucking asshole in front of other ppl or 2. forsake her corporeal boundaries and allow unwanted intimate contact

it’s a fucking trap

Fucking hate dudes forreal.

too many fucking times ugh

When dudes try to do this to me, I just say, “No thank you, I don’t like people outside of my family touching me,” and put out my hand for a handshake. Then they will look bad if they don’t accept that. I hated talking etiquette classes as a kid, but the stuff I do remember has helped me.

That’s a p good tip