tooiconic:

You’re allowed to hate your family/members of your family. It doesn’t matter if they birthed you, raised you, whatever the affiliation. At the end of the day, they are people just like everyone else who have the potential to be hateful, rude, abusive, and all around bad.

“Oh but they are/I’m your family [so you have to forgive them/me].”

No.
You don’t have to do anything.
That’s classic manipulation and so many people don’t even realize it.

Anyone can be a horrible person and you’re allowed to cut toxic people from your life.